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Tuesday, August 12, 2014

The Delhi Trip Diary_day2


Day 2:  Zeyarat-eh-mukhlis…..

Its not easy to sleep in a Air conditioned room specially when you are not habitual.  But in delhi you can’t sleep in night without AC. It too damn hot and when there is very little rain you don’t have any other option. And when 3 good friends meet after 3 years you can be rest assure no one can sleep. Somehow all the possible bullshit talks happen in night. I am sure everyone who meet there friend after a long time will clearly understand what I am trying to say. we had lights out at 11:00 pm but we just couldn’t sleep till 3 am.

“tum saale mujhe sone nahi doge,mera office hai kal” sardarji said while trying to sleep.

“koi nahi sardarji kal office mat jao” chintu said laughing.

“saale naya manager aya hai sab log work from home karenge toh who baal nochte baithega” he replied.

And we all busted in loud laugh at 2 am in the morning.
The next morning initially we had just planned for Akshardham temple. For that we had to hopped from red line to yellow line and then into blue line towards Noida city center. The demography of delhi just remains the same. Everywhere its just the same endless structures, no scenery and very little to look outside the metro.
Until you reach the Akshardham temple which can be seen clearly from atleast 2 km away from the station itself. And it is huge and even huge is not the correct word to describe it. The security check is un-parallel there. It wasn’t the first time I was visiting this place but chintu was awestruck by its magnificence, planning and carving.

We took advantage of this opportunity and pray to all the gods and it was really an inspiring experience. The last time when we came I didn’t pay attention to small details like the minute carvings depicting early life of lord swamynarayan.  my attention was towards someone else the last time I visited this place.
Thinking of her just brings a stupid smile on my face like I have one right now. But it was different this time. 

She wasn’t but I am…..we meditated 20 mins and promptly moved out. 
Without wasting any more time we decided to move on from the place. And just then it struck me that I haven’t been to hazrat Nizzamuddins Dargah.

“hazarat nizzamuddin  ki dargah challe?” I asked chintu.

“chalo bhai… muhje bus apna time waste nahi karne hai… I mean I want to fully utilize my time here” he added.

As we walked out of the temple we called sunny to ask him the directions for dargah. He said “noida link road se direct auot milega”

Thanks to my screwed up GPS mind it took us around 45 mins to reach hazrat nizamudin.
 The Dargah is located a km or so inside from the main road we had to walk our way into it. The narrow lane was filled to the neck with people but still we didn’t mind. We just kept on… neither of us had been to this place before so we just followed the crowd. Honestly it was the crowd that was taking us towards the dargah. In some time we found ourselves in a sea of ziaraatin in lane which just kept getting narrow and narrow. Where flower shops thong on both sides of the lane the shop owner were shouting and literally pulling people in their shops requesting them to remove there footwear and buy chadder and flowers from them.

Even though it was hot and humid the entire lane was filled with various scents and fragrance of iter and rose flowers. We found an empty shop just randomly and removed our shoes infront of it.

“As-salam-waleh-kum” the shop owner greeted us. He was in complete white outfit and sat in the midst of rose petels.

“wahelh-kum-asalam” I greeted him back.

We washed our hands and asked him “miya do zeyarat dijiye”

“sirf phool ya chadar bhi” he asked

“nahi chacha aaj sirf phool” I said

“miya 4 lagege… andar do dargah hai… ek amir khusro ki dusri hazrat baba ki… toh 4 zeyarat lagenege” owner said.

Chintu and me looked at each other and then he noded.

“thik hai chacha 4 dedijiye” chintu said.

And we continued our journey towards the dargah in a lane which kept getting narrower and narrower.
But once you enter the dargah compound it’s a totally different place. You find people standing in queue to enter the shrine and volunteers rigorously shaking big fans to provide coolness to the visitors. One can literally feel the heaviness of prayers in the atmosphere. First we visited Amir khusro shrine and what you feel inside there is unexplainable. It is filled with prayers, wishes and thanks. But it wasn’t the main shrine.
Then we headed towards the main shrine of hazrat nizamudin. The place has a magical effect. It totally elevates you to a new place. You know you don’t feel anything apart from the divine and yourself. As we entered the shrine a lady gave his zeyarat to chintu and said “andar chadha dena”.

Chintu was shocked and didn’t knew what to say and so we just kept moving with the crowd. But once you enter the shrine it you and the divine only.
That day I realise that there is no harm in joining hands and bowing head in front of the divine. Once you enter the dargah with your handkerchief tied around your forehead, no one is rich no one is poor. Neither you are old nor you are young. All are one it dosnt matter if you are a Christian, hindu or muslim. Once you seek help of the divine he never differentiates. All he expects out of you is faith not necessarly in a particular avatar of him, but in him generally.

We kissed the chadar lying over the shrine and prayed and thanked the almighty.  Faith and belief can neither be created nor destroyed in one day. It an intangible part of our personality.
Before leaving the place we sat for a while listening the qawali.

I didn’t feel like leaving the place but we have to. Sardarji had left his office and we were due to meet Adi as well.

“acha chacha baba ki meer rahi toh dubara zarur ayenge” I said saying goodbye to the shop owner

Instead in return he replied “In-shah-allah”.

 Trust me I was totally filled with satisfaction and relief after visiting the place but the day wasn’t over yet….

Wednesday, August 6, 2014

The Delhi Trip Diary_day1


Day 1:  souls of lost memories…..

I was very sceptic about going to Delhi for my break.  It didn’t felt like a great idea initially. You will say that I am very pessimist about everything that happens around me. But it wasn’t that this trip was planned all of a sudden. We had to plan it at least 2 months before. It was because of the obvious super cramped Indian railways reservations. But traveling 1st time in 3rd AC was a new experience.

But I am glad that I agreed to what my roommate had planned.  Wasn’t because I was willing to go to Delhi but because of the super packed, hectic and draining month of July. It really tested my patience and limits, my willpower and persuasion ability. Trust me it looked easy initially…. Well at least I hoped it would be, but as I went through it, it didn’t seem easy at all. But I got through it. (Thanks to RED-BULL)
It wasn’t because of just one reason but there were many issues that took a piggy-back ride along with the exam stress and presentation blues.

So when on 28th I came out of my last exam center (the paper didn’t go well) I was blank, stuck and heavy-eyed. Not only because of studies and work but in generality. I was tired of running. It was then that I realize that people here in Mumbai are not running after thing. Instead they are running away from things.

To add to the woes I hadn’t slept the whole 27th then on 28th too as I had to do some last minute correction in the article for the magazine. I had hardly slept. On the night of 28th even though I was in need of sleep I agreed to join my teammate for a late night beer.
I had hardly packed anything and by the time I came back to my flat I was totally zombified. I filled whatever I could in my backpack and took to bed.

“tu kaise mara leta apni itni?” were the last words I remember  that my roommate said to me. It was almost 2 when we slept.

Next day we woke up like hippies and went to office. We had to reach Bandra terminus by 4:45 pm. And trust me Mumbai locals have zero reliability in rain.
We left early from office still sceptic about going to Delhi. Even after sitting in our 3 AC seats we were doubtful. But once the train left Bandra Terminus there was no turning back. The cold AC winds did brought some relaxation with it as I straight away slept.

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 Delhi is one place that really upsets me. But I had decided that I will overcome it this time. Ultimately it just gave me another reason to undertake this trip.  But once I got down at hazrat nizzamuddin station the next morning it was like a weird experience. You know that kind of filling when everything around you just remains the same. But somehow nothing seems similar. Only drastic change that we felt was in the weather. Where in Mumbai we were socked in heavy rains and mossy wet winds, here we were welcomed by hot bright orange sun and the only moistness we felt was of our own sweat.  It was exactly how I left Delhi the last time. I remember buying pastry from comsome situated at the lajpath nagar side exit of haz. Nizzamudin station. But somehow I was finding it difficult to remember anything apart from it.

My roommate said that “tera GPS pura ulta hai.”

Perhaps he was right as well. The autowala took us to Indraprastha metro station. And it really felt stupid when he took a round trip of station and exited from the sarai kale khan side.
But once reaching there it was the real déjà vu feeling. I was very scared of getting down at Rajiv Chowk not knowing how I would react. But honestly it was just the same, maybe I was overeating. Or possibly overstating stuffs.

I tried to locate the Nirula’s café but it wasn’t there. It was then I realize that things have changed. It was tough to accept that the world has moved on. There was no sign of Nirulas neither my old metro card was working nor any faces felt similar. 

But the best part about this entire journey was that I wasn’t going in the usual direction towards Noida but on the opposite direction towards Rithala. I never knew that it was the first line to be commissioned by DMRC.

From Rajiv Chowk to Kashmere gate and from there climbing upstairs towards RED line going towards Rithala was that part of Delhi that I had never seen. And there was one more thing that I was about to see after almost 3 years our dear friend sardarji. Actually my current roommate is sardarji’s ex-roomate and he was all the more joyous to meet him.  He whisked us from metro station straight to his home in Rohini and treated us with the most amazing chole kulche in lunch. My roommate was supremely tired so he quickly surrendered to sleep as soon as the AC was turned on.

Later that evening we had the most amazing dinner in a very long time. Sardarji took us to a very famous food joint in pitampura where we had Chengezi chicken which was cooked in ghee on the largest tava I have ever seen. It tasted divine with khamiri roti.

And trust me it was the most amazing chicken that I have tasted in my short lived life…

My mind was empty that night partly because the day turn out the way it did and partly because it didn’t… but I was happy to meet an old friend and most importantly. And I was ready….

Come-on Delhi…. Surprise me in a new way.


To be continued…..