“oh no! Not
again” was this your first reaction after reading this heading?
Well I couldn't
find anything more suitable to entitle this write-up of mine. I know its kind
of used up line. Seriously there is nothing that can be added into this as fair
share of thing have been written, wrote said by many people from superstars to
spiritual leaders. So i am not sure whether my thoughts would even contribute a
single drop in this huge ocean.
If you
think I am adding anything new or something that could reveal some sort of secret
I guess you would be terribly disappointed after reading this. This is just stray
thought that came in my mind which inspired me to write this.
To be
very honest birthday is a very special day in ones life. There are various
reasons for it but the main would be that this day not only brings happiness in
your life but so many people apart from you too feel the joys effect of this
day. Probably, a direct God’s gift, something
that you receive as soon as you are born i.e chance to brighten other life with just your mere
existence.
A ridiculous
theory that my mind came up with was since god is always preoccupied with the
keep so many people away from sadness which could be really pain in the ass. So
he distributes his job of keeping everyone happy ONE BIRTHDAY AT A TIME. Isn’t it
true that so many people feels happy when its your birthday. If any given day
you ask your parent which was the happiest day in their life, hands down they
will say that the day you were born.
Happiness
of your friends is mostly oriented towards satisfying there taste buds with all
kind of flavored indulgences and taking a dive in the booze tank. But however mode
they chose to express it they are happy aren’t they? Only contradiction to it
would be the “Gyani vyaktis” vision of happiness which according to them is
unconditional. But in planet earth the most endangered species are these
Gyani-vyakti.
But honestly
happiness is the only good thing that one can spread in this world and your
birthday gives you LICENSE TO THRILL. It’s like the bhrama-astra or the
ultimate weapon to make anyone smile.
Take the
test just go to anyone and say “it’s my birthday today.” That’s it.
Trust me
happy would be the first word that will come out of mouth straight from the heart
with a long smile and bright eyes. Just give it a try if you wanna make someone
happy. Also who has the time to cross check the validity of you birthday claim.
Now here
is a secret of mine that am sharing with you. I enjoy the birthdays of my
friends and family more than I enjoy my own. March and April are like the worst
time to have birthdays because its exam time always. So there you go I confess
it.
On a
very serious note its like an excuse for us to be happy and dress up in your
best clothes, buy the best possible gift, give hard ass kicking (a.k.a birthday
bums), icing make-ups and cold drink baths.
Although
you love them little and swear a lot at that moment, but they mean it when they
say
“happy
birthday and god bless you dear”
And what
they get in return is priceless. Be it a blushing thank you, a million dollar
smile or an emotional swearing hug. These things can make even dead laugh and
make your day the happiest day of your life.
Like Christmas
is the day of giving, holi is a day of sharing similarly birthday is the day to
accept. Whatever small, big or nothing others give you. Bershram hoke accept
kar lena. And before going to bed just close your eyes and thank the almighty
for you are some of those few lucky one who made it to see this day and make a
wish for yourself and a promise too.
Everyone
is precious and special. You even more than what you think you are. Make it
count.
Happy birthday!
Dear.
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