To be very honest I never really understood the term LOVE. Partly because it never happened to me and the more for the damage that people has caused to the reputation of this word. For me love is respect. Also when people start to expect there love to be just like shown in films, movies and television serials it gets complicated and boring. You know there is serious issues in you life when you partner asks you “how would you define our relation?”
Peoples constantly pursue a need to define things in life. I mean LOVE is defiantly not a thing to be defined or categorize as usually done by people it’s a feeling. I feel this is one of the simplest and also most controversial topic to write. I personally don't like to categorize LOVE it would like categorizing food joints around city or your cousins as a matter of fact on basis of whom you love more and less. It really amuses when people utter words like UNDERSTANDING, BONDING, CONNECTION, CHEMISTRY, COMMITMENT and RELATIONSHIP. I mean love is love and there is no other synonym to it. It truly what you feel for a person, who ever they may be and it’s the most purist of emotion. Inclusion of these words had adulterated the true meaning of love and made a complicated thing out of a feeling that's absolutely spontaneous and unbiased.
It has become so complex that our University can start a new branch of engineering to understand it. I mean there are actually levels or stages in which you love someone.
Like crush, understanding, love, commitment and relationship…..and god know what more in between. How the hell these terms came into scene? Here is my definition of the above terms
CRUSH- “its mine” type of feeling for a certain jeans during window shopping. You think you have a chance until you are proved wrong.
UNDERSTANDING- it’s like a probation period of a company. The more you think you know the little you actually know and understand it.
THE PROPOSAL- its like a mouse trap. Either you have the mouse or the cheese is lost.
LOVE- its like a heavily marketed flop movie. You expect a lot from what actually there is to be offered.
COMMITMENT- its like a life time guarantee on electronic appliances. Everybody wants it but none is ready to give it.
RELATIONSHIP- its like a public toilet. People outside are desperate to get in and people in are dying to get out.
To be honest love should never be categorized and labeled as such. It should not be for someone special but everyone should special from your love. it should always be like taste of chocolate. Always same but still special for everyone that would be real love if there will be any. Just like the LOVE and AFFECTION that a baby has pure, unadulterated and absolutely unbiased from its very existence. Also it should not be left to be expressed on a particular special day or occasion like Valentines Day. Whenever you get a chance to show your affection just do it without thinking much back and forth. Be it your girlfriend, your crush, your wife or your family or friends. Not by some fancy costly gift but by a sms from heart or a big smile can do wonders. As long as its pure its divine, as long as its divine its true, as long as its true its LOVE. By anyone, for anyone.
Happy vals day.
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